{"id":2996,"date":"2022-10-08T13:14:18","date_gmt":"2022-10-08T13:14:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/countysplash.co.ke\/?p=2996"},"modified":"2022-10-08T13:14:18","modified_gmt":"2022-10-08T13:14:18","slug":"kakamega-woman-rejected-by-husband-over-birth-of-disabled-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonnews.co.ke\/?p=2996","title":{"rendered":"Kakamega: Woman rejected by husband over birth of disabled kids"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><code>These two incidents angered her mother-in-law who accused Snaida of bringing a curse to the family demanding that she be thrown out of the homestead and his son remarries.<\/code><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><code>By Dennis Avokoywa, Kakamega <\/code><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A 24-year-old woman from Manyatta\nvillage, Malava Constituency, Kakamega County is living in fear of being chased\naway from her matrimonial home in the pretext of giving birth to physically\nchallenged kids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The troubles of Snaida Khalenya\nbegan way back in 2016 after her parents were unable to pay her school fees\nforcing her to drop out of school while in class 8.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><code>Fall in love\u00a0<\/code><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In 2017, as Snaida was serving as a\nhouse girl she got to know one bodaboda guy, Wycliffe Chisikha who used to pick\nand drop her boss&#8217; kids to and from school. Little did she know the two will\none day fall in love and later become a wife and a husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p> <strong><code>Since Chisikha was the only son to his parents, pressure mounted, her mum demanded for a 'normal' grandchild.\u00a0 <\/code><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Things happened so fast, we\ngot our first daughter Valentine Atamba who grew up as a normal child, however\nI didn&#8217;t understand why she took too long to stand&#8221;, Said Snaida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"666\" src=\"https:\/\/horizonnews.co.ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG-20221008-WA0023-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2999\" srcset=\"https:\/\/horizonnews.co.ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG-20221008-WA0023-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/horizonnews.co.ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG-20221008-WA0023-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/horizonnews.co.ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG-20221008-WA0023-1-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/horizonnews.co.ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG-20221008-WA0023-1-696x464.jpg 696w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption><strong><code>Snaida Khalenya and the family<\/code><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Since Chisikha was the only son to\nhis parents, pressure mounted, her mum demanded for a &#8216;normal&#8217;\ngrandchild.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><code>Conceive again.<\/code><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One year later Snaida conceived and\ngave birth to their 2nd daughter Joylyne Matsitsa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She grew up just like any\nother child. Like her sister she too took time to stand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I tried to take them to various\nhospitals for check ups but doctors couldn&#8217;t find any problem&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><code>The angry mother-in-law.<\/code><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These two incidents angered her\nmother-in-law who accused Snaida of bringing a curse to the family demanding\nthat she be thrown out of the homestead and his son remarries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She has occasionally\nthreatened to kill me if I fail to leave his son alone. She has severely chased\nme out of her compound, I thank my husband for always being there for me&#8221;,\nShe added.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p> <strong><code>\"I have been to Kwadeka hospital in Malava where doctors said that their  bones were weak, they demanded more than 2,000 shillings a day, an  amount I am unable to raise,\" she added. <\/code><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Khalenya&#8217;s efforts of finding\nanswers to unravel the mystery facing her 2 daughters by visiting various\nmedical centers with the desire to see her daughter walk has been fertile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She failed to raise 2,000 shillings\ndemanded by the hospital to allow the experts to conduct a therapy for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I have been to Kwadeka hospital\nin Malava where doctors said that their bones were weak, they demanded more\nthan 2,000 shillings a day, an amount I am unable to raise,&#8221; She added.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My family depends on this\nhired bodaboda for their upkeep, my wife is jobless&#8221; Said Chisikha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The family is now pleading for\nfinancial help from well-wishers and good samaritans that will enable them to\ntake their daughters for a therapy which will enable them to stand and walk one\nday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m afraid to get pregnant\nagain, I might give birth to a kid with the same problems&#8221;, She said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">End<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These two incidents angered her mother-in-law who accused Snaida of bringing a curse to the family demanding that she be thrown out of the homestead and his son remarries. 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